My Article for The New York Times Motherlode!

On Thursday’s New York Times website, an article I wrote for the Motherlode blog, “Should Preschoolers Have Homework?” generated over 100 comments from parents! While I was so excited and appreciative to see so many parents weigh in on the topic, I was also a little surprised by how few parents responded to the main tenet of the article: that while nearly all parents agree that homework for the ‘barely potty-trained’ is silly, and while experts continue to weigh in that play-based education is most developmentally appropriate for the youngest children, why don’t more parents speak up? I admit many of the parents who commented said that they would speak up if their child did bring home the dreaded worksheets, but that doesn’t completely explain how preschool homework is allowed to exist in the first place. By speaking up, I guess I don’t mean just talking to a child’s teacher, but I was thinking more of parents banding together and going to all the preschools and having them come up with a policy that says “we will not give homework – at the very least the kind that requires a deadline and ‘turning in’ and receives some kind of reward for doing so.”

I wonder if this has to do with not knowing about all the research available on the value and immense benefits to preschool children of a play-based curriculum – I thought I’d include some of that info here, in the links below. Along with not wanting to rock the boat, as expert Alfie Kohn suggests, and the pressure of preschool testing to get access to coveted magnet/gifted and talented programs, another good reason preschool homework exists and persists is because parents don’t know that homework may not only not help their child, but may actually hurt the early-childhood learning process.

I didn’t know about play-based preschool education and how beneficial it was. I didn’t have any idea that play teaches young children skills they will need later on for academics, and that play nourishes their young, developing brains. As a matter of fact, as a college-educated mother of three, I thought exactly the opposite – get them into academics soon so they can learn the ropes and excel. Right? But, according to (all) the experts, young children a) don’t have the capacity to “work” at acquiring skills and b) need to learn important things about themselves and others, in essence about discovering the world, before they are ready for hard academics. This explains why many preschool children are frustrated and anxious about their homework – they are not ready for what it takes to complete it.

Yes, play is all well and good, I can hear you saying it right now, but play curriculum does not leave space for what today’s kindergarten has turned into – an almost entirely academic affair where children are involved in “work” for the majority of the day? My own son only had 15 minutes of recess all day in 7-hour kindergarten, and homework every single night. How will play-based “discovery” prepare them to enter a kindergarten where most the children have been vigorously prepped – from fine-motor skill development to the basics of math and reading? Will a child who is enveloped in play in preschool be able to catch up with those who haven’t been so enveloped?

According to psychologist Dr. Gordon Neufeld, in many cases, children are pushed into performing way too soon. “You can get incredible things out of them if you detach them from marks and rewards.” Dr. Neufeld recommends that preschool and kindergarten should be places with no emphasis on outcomes, just learning for the fun of it.

What do you think? Do you think we parents should speak up against the whole lot of it – academic preschool and academic kindergarten? And how to stem the tide?


All Work and No Play: Why Your Children are More Anxious, Depressed

All work and no play… is not good for the developing brain

Feel-Bad Education: The Cult of Rigor and the Loss of Joy

The Truth About Homework

For Parents Who Are Thinking About Learning

After moving from Dallas to Nashville over the Christmas holidays, I had to – by sheer force of geography – give up my blog about Texas public education, Parents for Educating Texas. Although that chapter has ended, I’m excited to continue a conversation here that takes an inquisitive look at the parent perspective on education, school reform and learning issues more generally.

A tip-of-the-iceberg quality hovers over my education writing and thinking so far: it seems that the farther I fall down the rabbit hole, the more I want to know about the reasons we parents think and believe the things we do about our children, their teachers, and the schools that encapsulate the majority of their childhoods. From standardized testing to child consumerism to preschool homework, I’m interested in the culture that has brought us the schools we have today.

And I’m wondering: do we parents have the power – or maybe it’s the imagination – to turn this ship around?

There are more vexing questions that deserve a second look: Is the ‘Parent Trigger’ a good or a bad thing for parents? How much does poverty play into how a child gets educated? Can standing up to your school about a variety of complicated issues help or hinder your child’s chances at a great education? Does better education take place at a private school vs. a public one – or a public magnet vs. a neighborhood school? How can you tell? How can parents tell if their child is learning what they need? Who should parents ask?

Like Parents for Educating Texas, I will continue to read and review education books and try to connect parents with resources that I find valuable, and hope you will share the same with me. It’s with great pleasure and passion I bring you the best discussions I can muster on these topics and more. I hope you’ll join me.


Holly Korbey